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Monday, June 05, 2023

Photo Blogging Challenge (May 2023): Tell A Story!

This story goes way back, well before my time. My mom's father was killed in action in WWII two months before she was born. My grandmother worked multiple jobs during my mom's childhood to make ends meet. When my mom was a pre-teen, my grandmother sent her to New York to spend a year with my grandmother's sister and her husband. They lived in Brooklyn and were both writers. My great uncle was a novelist and my great aunt worked for Time and Life magazines. It was around this time that my great aunt and uncle started building a cabin on some property they had purchased in western New York. 

This summer, like most summers over the years, my mom is in the cabin in the woods. Both my great aunt and uncle have passed and having no children of their own, my mom inherited the property. She is now 78 and, while in great shape, isn't comfortable getting herself up there these days. This May, I got her up and settled for the summer.

It starts with a plane ride. Airplane rides are the best when they are uneventful. This one was very uneventful. 

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We arrived in town a little after noon and were both hungry. However, when she turned her phone on she had a missed call from the company that was shipping her car. The year before last, we bought her a car for the summer, actually sold it for more afterwards, but it was a lot more work than we expected. Last year, she just rented a car but it's expensive and they only let you keep a car for a month, so she would have to go to town and swap cars. My sister found that for $900.00 we could get her car delivered via flatbead in 1-3 days. We met the drivers at a shuttered deli. Coronavirus took out several of the few places to eat in this small town. After settling up with the delivery guys, we quickly settled in and headed out for a late lunch. They know how to make a great slice in New York!

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The cabin is tucked away down a private road with two other cabins. The owners of these are the same ones she grew up with when she was first here. So it's truly a special place for her.

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My first plane ride ever was to Newark, New Jersey, the closest airport at the time. I remember a lot about my first visit here too. What still stands out the most was what my great uncle called the Birch John Society, the birch covered outhouse, as there wasn't a septic system at the time, that is still in use today. And the croquet court. You can see what remains of it in the center right. It's not as smooth as it once was.
  
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I can't remember the last time my mom and I spent time together alone. We really didn't do much this trip but talk. And eat! After a stop at our favorite diner in Milford, PA, we took a walk through the grounds at Grey Towers. After a quick stop in Port Jervis at her favorite deli for dinner later, we headed back to the cabin.

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We were there a little earlier than she is used to being there so a lot of flowers were in bloom still that she usually misses. Here are a few bonus shots of those.

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After spending the morning talking and strolling the forest, it was time for me to head home. Back to the heat. It's not so green here. 

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I've got a bunch of photos over the years with my boys and their cousins playing in the woods much like my mom when she was little as well as other wonderful views of the area here on my Flickr feed.
And I have to share these two photos of my mom taken in the same spot just a few years apart:

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Sunday, May 07, 2023

Photo Blogging Challenge (April 2023): You Do You

April was a month of music, art, and fun. I had a hard time just choosing five but did my best. Here's my five of You Do You, with a few bonus pics.

An old high school friend of mine has over 50,000 hours of musicians recorded on video. His Texas Music Cafe was once a show on PBS and is now a YouTube channel that probably only has 1% of his recordings. He's still at it and I was there for his latest.April_2023_8840

I have to throw one in of the dogs. Charlie loves her Rosie very much, Rosie sometimes needs her space. 

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I made a squirrel friend. This is Gwendola. Every day, she greets my friend as he comes home from work. Today, she let me feed her.

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Back to the music, my boys (who are now men) and I returned to the Old Settler's Music Festival for the first time since the world changed. The festival got a little smaller but is still full of great music. I found a lot of new people to follow. This is Big Richard, they describe themselves as a Bluegrass Bachelorette Party.

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April ended up in Los Angeles. We got invited (to buy tickets) to Willie Nelson's 90th Birthday party. It was star studded and great to see the Red-headed Stranger once again. 

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That's my five. I took a bunch more in LA, we did so much in a short time. If you have the desire to check out Hollywood and some art museums, visit my Flickr album. Here's a little bonus taste!

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Tuesday, April 11, 2023

Photo Blogging Challenge (March 2023): Ten

This is by far my weakest outing. I guess I forgot the theme because I really didn't find anything that would work I wanted to play anyway. 10 years is a long time and I'm happy to still be around. So, as it turns out I happened to have taken more than five photos on March 10. What you are about to see is the best of them. Sorry. Thanks for 10 years of fun, PJ. Presented without further commentary.


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There you go. I did it. Hopefully I can do it better next month. Go look at some real photos over at a lil hoohaa blog. It will make up for this, I promise. But, I do have cute dogs doing cute dog things! See you next month!

Friday, March 03, 2023

Photo Blogging Challenge (February 2023): Love

February, the month of Love! I don't have a lot to say so I'll let the photos do most of the talking.
 
Our group of friends that stayed together over Zoom for the last couple of years have started gathering for dinners every now and then. We also happen to have a CIA(The other CIA) trained chef in our mix. I love the community we have built.
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Not to let PJ get all of the dog content, we rescued this sweetie this month. She is a handful but such a fun addition to our home.
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I haven't been out to Lake Tahoe in 10 years or more. It's hard not to love this place.
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Rosie loves Charlie, too.
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February is the month my favorite love was born. I definitely love this special lady!
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And, one more bonus for the road. Will you just look at those ears!?! We can't decide if she is Anubis or a jackal. 😀
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That's my five six. Thanks for taking a look at what our February was like. As always, take a look at the others over at A 'lil Hoohaa. And why don't you think about playing along in March!

Saturday, February 04, 2023

Photo Blogging Challenge (January 2023): Nice, New, and Looking Ahead

It's a new year and a new year of Photo Challenges. What's nice and new that we can look ahead for or to?

Let's see. 

A new month, a new year, and new bluegrass players at Pearl's First Saturday Bluegrass Jam.
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I got a new photo printer. I like to print every now and then. Unfortunately, many times not enough to keep the ink from gumming up. I'm going to try to print at least once a month with this one. 
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New wallpaper going up in my mom's new powder room. Fun stuff. Hopefully she is moving soon.
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For the first time since the mid 1980s, the Waco Symphony Orchestra is looking for a new music director and conductor. Tonight, we had the first of the finalists lead the WSO. He was great!
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Finally, a new to us fishing spot way back in a hiking/horse/bike only park. Nice and quiet.
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That's my five. I'm looking forward to another great year!

Tuesday, January 03, 2023

PHOTO BLOGGING CHALLENGE (DECEMBER 2022): HAPPY HOLIDAYS

Happy New Year! A new year with new challenges and more surprises. Let's wrap up 2022 first with a look at Happy Holidays.

The weather outside was quite frightful for a few days after Thanksgiving so that allowed us to get the tree up a little earlier than normal. Here it is all finished up. Looking mighty barren but with grown kids we don't have a lot to put under there anymore.December_2022_11_of_12

Carbonara sings Sinatra sings Holly Jolly Holiday songs with the Waco Jazz Orchestra. Bruce is the brother of one of my old college professors. We all go way back. In fact, that's his brother videoing in front of me.December_22_7300

I did a lot of crawling around and sketchy repair work but I got the Kaiser Von Burgundy the Jeepster running literally minutes before a Christmas parade. My elves joined in on the ride. December_7343

Our Tulsa office Christmas party resumed this year after a two year hiatus. My boys, sister, her son, and me clowning for the photo booth.

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That's my five! We had a fun Christmas. Even had a hard freeze with a little snow flurry in the days leading up. Make sure to check out the the other participants and join in yourself!


Tuesday, December 06, 2022

Photo Blogging Challenge (November 2022): Instasnap

 

It's December and time for another installment of the Photo Blogging Challenge. This one was relatively easy in that lately most of my pictures are with my iPhone. I don't rely on the filters as much as I once did since the sensors have gotten so much better but I did play with some and messed about with some Presets I have in Lightroom too.

This was mostly just a saturation boost. The windscreen added the gradient. 
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Foodstagram is my favorite instagram. The camera always eats first!
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Oddly shaped pumpkin on the mantel caught my eye.
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Tulsa is an oil town with a lot of mid-century modern architecture. Many building lend themselves to vintage type treatments.
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A friend had us over to dinner and this was in her powder room. A bit of a color and shadow boost along with some negative vignetting set the mood.
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Here's a bonus I took way back in 2012 with an old iPhone before the better sensors. I even had this one printed on canvas and hanging in my office. Back when a good filter saved a relatively crappy image, resolution wise.
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There's my five+ This was fun to go a little more heavy handed with the editing than I normally do. Check out the others at a lil hoohaa blog and I'll see you next year!

Merry Christmas and a very Happy New Year!!!

Tuesday, November 08, 2022

Photo Blogging Challenge (October 2022): Potpourri

Potpourri is the perfect description of my October. Fairs, Dallas, North Carolina, New York, Mexico, and Austin were some of the places life took me this month. It was a busy month but so much fun.

We were in Dallas for a conference so my sister and I took our new Pennsylvania employee and a client to the State Fair of Texas one evening. If you have followed me for any length of time, you know I have to get my Fletcher's Corny Dog fix. It runs in the family, my sister named one of her dogs Fletcher!October_2022_2

North Carolina was next, just for a day and nothing really exciting. From there, we went up to my mom's place in New York to help her close it up for the winter. I'd never been there in the fall. So many colors.October_2022_6516

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Off to Mexico for a few days of relaxation. Amy and I dove off Cancun at the Underwater Museum of Art. Started in 2009, over 300 statues made of coral friendly material were placed in several galleries. It's quite cool looking and also a bit eerie. If you are so inclined, you can check out the video I made of our dive on my YouTube channel: https://youtu.be/GKWVNR_tYJk Cancun_2022_6064 

The day after our Mexico return, I made a trip to Austin with some buddies for some Race Cars and Rock music at the US Gran Prix. Green Day and Ed Sheeran performed on Friday and Saturday nights respectively and Sunday saw a relatively uneventful race but a good time was had.USGP_2022_6816  USGP_2022_1000184 USGP_2022_6812

There's my five plus two bonus from COTA. We had some football and some Halloween adventures too. You'll just have to check out the rest of my flickr for those. Thanks for the visit and we'll be back next month.